The Art of Decluttering Negativity: A Journey to Self-Respect

Original version:

Don't ever get me started

Even if I don't say anything,

I might be enduring you

Once you get me started,

我绝不内耗，

If you ever try to break me once,

I will make sure you feel my sharp edges,

I don't care if you feel hurt or not anymore,

Because it is the same way you do to me 

What you do to me

I will do the same to you 

You behave nicely 

I behave nicely to you

If you don't respect me

I don't respect you if I can't endure anymore

That's it 

If you find me disappointed,

You find me unattractive anymore,

You find me not useful anymore,

You find me not worthy to keep anymore,

Okay fine, 

If you got a better choice of friend for you that you think more suitable,

Alright, there is always a way and a choice of you to decide if you want to keep me along your side or you leave me and ciao 

I don't care okay

Friends always come and go 

We are this old already 

It is not like I cannot accept the come and go of any friend at this time period of me now

I had learnt from my past 

If unmatched?

Let it go 

If they love to tease your outfit?

Let them

"Let them" theory came in right there 

Right on the spot!

Did you see it?!

Yes, whatever they like to say, 

Let them

If they want to go to their other friends

Let them

Be yourself 

If they are true friends

They like you your true colours

They will stay 

Vice versa they ciao okay?

Whatever it is 

Learn to love yourself 

Love yourself more than others

Whoever they are

Whether they are your friends for more than ten years

Whether they are your siblings or family members or your parents 

You protect your inner peace 

No matter what happen

You yourself choose whatever you want to keep with you 

Eg. You want to keep compliments from others, you want to keep positive vibes from others 

You yourself choose whatever you want to declutter from others

Eg. You declutter their negative vibes, you declutter their negative comments on you, whatever makes you uncomfortable, whatever makes you feel unwell, throw them out 

You are responsible to keep yourself clean, safe and peaceful 

Yes, that is how you fully developed self-esteem and self-love that grow stronger and stronger where no one can ever break you again.

❤️
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Gemini improved version:

Finding Your Inner Strength: A Guide to Self-Love and Resilience

"Don't ever get me started." This phrase often reflects a simmering frustration, a warning of emotions close to the surface. While it's important to express your boundaries, consider a more assertive and less reactive approach.

Even if you remain silent, you may be silently enduring behaviors that aren't acceptable to you. Remember, "我绝不内耗" – I will not engage in internal friction. This powerful mantra encourages you to prioritize your inner peace and avoid self-sabotage.

If someone tries to break you, remember your strength. Assert your boundaries with clarity and conviction. While you should always strive to be compassionate, you don't have to tolerate mistreatment.

Remember, how you are treated is a reflection of how you allow yourself to be treated. If someone respects you, reciprocate that respect. If they consistently disrespect you, it's time to reassess the relationship.

If you feel undervalued or unappreciated, it's crucial to recognize your own worth. You are not defined by others' opinions of you. If someone chooses to leave your life, it's their loss.

Friendships evolve, and some may naturally drift apart. At this stage in life, it's important to accept that change is inevitable. Focus on cultivating relationships that nurture your well-being.

Let go of negativity. If someone criticizes your appearance or tries to undermine your confidence, let their words wash over you. True friends celebrate your individuality and support your growth.

Prioritize self-love. Cultivate a strong sense of self-worth and prioritize your own happiness. Surround yourself with positive influences and cultivate a positive inner dialogue.

Declutter your mind and heart. Just as you declutter your physical space, declutter your mental space. Let go of negative thoughts, hurtful comments, and any experiences that drain your energy.

Focus on cultivating inner peace and self-compassion. You are responsible for your own well-being. Nurture your inner strength and build unshakeable self-confidence.

Remember, true strength comes from within. Embrace your individuality, cultivate self-love, and build a life that reflects your values and aspirations.

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Let me quote this:

【BE LIKE GLASS —— CLEAR, STRONG, AND UNBOTHERED. BUT IF THEY BREAK YOU, MAKE SURE THEY FEEL THE SHARP EDGES. 】———— Luna Mae Saphire